Paper Wedding Anniversary

December 22, 2010 - December 22, 2011

To my ever dearest, loving and lovely spouse, you’re such a wonderful blessing that God has given me. Thank you for your faithful and generous love, care, support and understanding. No one else in this world would give me love, care, support and understanding the way you do. I just don't know what my life would be now without you... and for that, I will always be grateful to you. With you, my life has been so blessed and filled with endless excitement and adventure.

Happy Paper Wedding Anniversary, Sweetie!

Today we celebrate our most difficult accomplishment, staying married together for one year time na gid! Hehehe :)

... Thank you for your love and understanding that you showed me every day. You are so generous with your time, energy, and forgiveness in moments that ginaabot ko sang akon pagka-moody, suplado kag insensitive sa imo. I know that each day of our married life will always be a daily adjustment and knowing you more… and this will not be easy for me without your constant love and understanding. May God be always the Rock, the strong foundation of our married life. Without Him, ambot lang if nakasurvive pa ta one year… hehe! It’s His grace that I am always able to swallow my pride, conquer my ego and cope in every challenge that came, comes, and will come in our life… and ang pinagid ka importante, it’s He who enables me to love you the way you…bisan kis-a budlay gid e-understand kag himuon. I just love you sweetie the way that you are… may baby or wala… that’s always been my promise to you... nothing will change. 

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A romantic dinner @ 21 Bar Resto

 ... It's already 12:30 am December 23, 2011... just arrived home with my sweetheart, enjoying the night together on our Paper Wedding Anniversary! After a sumptuous and very romantic dinner at 21 Bar Resto, we enjoyed the rest of the night at Black Velvet comedy bar. It was so much fun for both of us as we enjoyed the food and the fun at the comedy bar. I never thought we can reach this far... I'm counting more more years to be with my ONE and ONLY Bella and Vanilla Twilight... I love you so much sweetie.... and for the many times I fell short of expressing the love that you expected me to show, I'll try my very best to make it up with you... The five glasses of Screwdriver screwed me up as we heed off for home. Thank you sweetie for the love and so much fun and adventure with your company...

I just thank the Lord so much for all His blessing for us in our married life for the past year despite the many challenges that we faced together... The Lord has been good to us that's why we celebrate His unfailing love and providence to us. Praise and thanksgiving to You oh Lord, now and always...

Inug-tabang unta pero wala nakatabang...

Mapa-utwas lang gid ko sang pwerte nga kalain sang bu-ot kay daw indin ko nagid matulon ang ini nga hitabo. Indi ko makapati nga ang isa ka institution nga amo dapat ang bulwark sang pagserbisyo kag hustisya, indi makahatag mismo sang nagakaigo nga bulig o serbisyo sa iya nga empleyado sa tiempo nga gakinahanglan gid sang bulig.

Ang asawa ko nagmaternity leave last September 20...nagbalik na obra sang November 22... hasta subong ang SSS Maternity Leave nga gn-applyan namon nga tani dapat gamiton sa amon kinahanglanon sang tiempo nga pi-ot gid kaayo sang amon situasyon wala na hatag... asta subong nga adlaw (December 20) masukat na isa kabulan nga nakabalik na sa trabaho ang akon asawa wala gyapon nahatag... ang indi maintiendihan nga ang tanan nga papeles nahatag naman... narelease na gani sang SSS ang Maternity Benefit chequesang nagligad pa nga mga sinemana... nga indi pa marelease...? Sa tuod-tuod lang need gid na namon ang kwarta subong para makabayad sa mga utang halin pa sang pagka-ospital namon sang September 20...hasta sa og bakal bulong sang asawa ko para dasig mag-ayo para makabalik sa obra...

Ang punto man lang tani kasimple: sin-o pa bala mabulig sa imo sa tiempo sang ital-ital kundi dapat ang institution nga ginaserbisyohan mo but kasubo dumdumon nga amo pa ang madugang sakit sang ulo mo kag problema... galain gid ang buot ko kay kadako sang akon regards tani sa mga tawo sa sini nga institution... gabulig sa iban nga tawo pero ang tawo nga bululigan nga yara mismo sa ila ugsaran indi pa matalupangdan... kabay pa tani mapinsaran man ninyo kon ano nga kalain sang buot ang inyo ginhiatag sa asawa ko nga nagserbisyo todo-todo pero daw napabay-an pa sa tiempo nga nagakinahanglan sang inyo bulig... indi ko gid malipatan nga wala pa gani nakabalik ang asawa ko, nga bisan tani garecuperate pa, bisan sa balay ginapadal-an obra pero ginabatun nga wala sang reklamo tunog na lang gid sa ngalan sang serbisyo... pero sa katapusan siya nga dapat buligan... wal gid na-ulikdan nga buligan sang dapat magbulig sa iya nga mga tawo... kasubo...

Sa mga natungdan nga dapat maghikutar sini... tani makonsensiya man kamo kag mabutang man tani ninyoang kaugalingon nyo sa lugar sang akon nga asawa ko... charity begins in your own backyard...